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momsdrunkagain:

oceeansinbetween:

momsdrunkagain:

beeeancaa:

momsdrunkagain:

You are beautiful. You are amazing. You are worthy of love.

Then don’t call them fat girls

Fat isn’t an insult it’s an adjective and if you add negative connotations to it you’re the one who probably needs to reevaluate how YOU view fat people.

The world needs more respect for each other no matter what size they have or conditions they live in.

kiss my fat ass that aint what i wrote.

blackfairypresident:

i noticed that alot of queer kids feel like they have to tell their friends and family that theyre queer. even if theyll be rejected

and i want to remind u all that nobody is entitled to knowing your romantic, sexual or gender orientations. nobody. you have no moral obligation to share that information if youre not comfortable with doing so

youre not “lying” by not telling people or “hiding”. cause its honestly no ones business but your own

you come out on your own terms when you feel safe and comfortable doing so!! or you can come out to a few trusted people if you want before telling a larger group

dont feel like you owe that information to anyone ok??

anagnori:

Has anyone else noticed that amatonormativity and heteronormativity are connected, and tend to feed into each other?

Amatonormativity demands that all people feel romantic attraction, and seek out and participate in romantic relationships. But it doesn’t pressure us toward all romantic relationships equally–it specificallly encourages “straight” monogamous romantic relationships, between a man and a woman.

Polyamorous relationships, relationships involving non-binary genders, and relationships between people of the same gender are actually stigmatized. Even in a man/woman relationship, if one of the partners is bi, pan, aro, or asexual, then the couple may get hit with insinuations that the bi/pan/aro/ace person doesn’t truly love their partner, just because of their orientation.

Amatonormativity is a form of heteronormativity.

And if you look at heteronormativity, it’s often exercized in amatonormative ways. Most of the virulent homophobic and biphobic rhetoric I’ve seen tries to reduce LGB relationships down to only sex, and downplays or ignores the romantic love that many LGB people feel. At the same time, advocacy for LGB relationships often tries to appeal to people by emphasizing romantic love–that the romantic love in LGB people’s relationships is the same as found in straight people’s relationships. It is as if romantic love “legitimizes” sexuality, and sex without romance is seen as shallow, less meaningful, and even sinful by our culture.

This…is a problem. It leaves LGB aromantic people in a difficult position. I haven’t seen much talk about acceptance of non-romantic, sexual, same-gender relationships, except from aromantic people.

banal-adventures:

okay, i keep seeing these recovery posts that ALL INCLUDE romantic relationships in them and i am tired of our society’s romonormative bs, so here’s for my ace and aro-specturm kids: one day, you’re going to wake up feeling excited for the day and the life ahead of you, feeling like a real person whose feelings and desires are valid and real, secure in the knowledge that you are loved and lovable, whether or not you wake up with someone in bed beside you.